Relationship between father and the son

I reached to the top in 43 minutes and 35 seconds. It was a best record for me. The reason must be a race with my son. I could climbed with better performance by fight with someone.
But, I loose the game. My son reached there in about 42 minutes and 0 seconds. I felt frustrated and happiness. I wanted to win him. But, my son's growth is my happiness. Relationship between father and the son is very strange.